Friendship With the World is Enmity With God

by Mike Ratliff

1 Πόθεν πόλεμοι καὶ πόθεν μάχαι ἐν ὑμῖν; οὐκ ἐντεῦθεν, ἐκ τῶν ἡδονῶν ὑμῶν τῶν στρατευομένων ἐν τοῖς μέλεσιν ὑμῶν; 2 ἐπιθυμεῖτε καὶ οὐκ ἔχετε, φονεύετε καὶ ζηλοῦτε καὶ οὐ δύνασθε ἐπιτυχεῖν, μάχεσθε καὶ πολεμεῖτε, οὐκ ἔχετε διὰ τὸ μὴ αἰτεῖσθαι ὑμᾶς, 3 αἰτεῖτε καὶ οὐ λαμβάνετε, διότι κακῶς αἰτεῖσθε, ἵνα ἐν ταῖς ἡδοναῖς ὑμῶν δαπανήσητε. 4 μοιχαλίδες, οὐκ οἴδατε ὅτι ἡ φιλία τοῦ κόσμου ἔχθρα τοῦ θεοῦ ἐστιν; ὃς ἐὰν οὖν βουληθῇ φίλος εἶναι τοῦ κόσμου, ἐχθρὸς τοῦ θεοῦ καθίσταται. 5 ἢ δοκεῖτε ὅτι κενῶς ἡ γραφὴ λέγει· πρὸς φθόνον ἐπιποθεῖ τὸ πνεῦμα ὃ κατῴκισεν ἐν ἡμῖν, 6 μείζονα δὲ δίδωσιν χάριν; διὸ λέγει·

ὁ θεὸς ὑπερηφάνοις ἀντιτάσσεται,

ταπεινοῖς δὲ δίδωσιν χάριν.  (James 4:1-6 NA28)

1 From where do wars come and from where do fights come among you? Is it not from here–from your pleasures warring in your members? 2 You desire and you do not have. You kill and you envy and you are not able to obtain. You fight and you war. You do not have because you fail to ask. 3 You ask and you do not receive because you ask wrongly, to spend it on your pleasures. 4 Adulteresses, do you not know that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? Therefore, whoever chooses to be a friend of the world is made an enemy of God. Or do you think that  it is in vain the Scripture says, “He yearns jealously over the spirit that he has made to dwell in us“? Be he gives greater grace. Therefore it says, “God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble.” (James 4:1-6 translated from the NA28 Greek text)

The Church since its inception in the 1st Century AD has been plagued by quarrels, disagreements, feuds, splits, et cetera. According to God, the problem is not with the Gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ or his doctrines, but with the fact that people in the Church are not submitted properly to him or to each other. Pride is behind most disagreements just as it is behind those who break away from the truth to lead their followers with false doctrines and a focus that is on self rather than on God and his glory. Instead, those who cause these problems are in love with self and, therefore, in love with the world, its ways, and the things of the world.

Here is my translation of James 4:1 from the NA28 Greek text, “From where do wars come and from where do fights come among you? Is it not from here–from your pleasures warring in your members?“.

The Greek word used here translated as quarrels is μάχαι or machē. In this context, James is referring to conflicts that have escalated to a form of battle. He used the word ἡδονῶν or hēdonōn to describe the root cause of these conflicts. It is where we get our word “hedonism.” It is translated as “lusts” or “passions.” This word describes self-centered desires. If we carefully examine our own walks and are honest with ourselves, we will have to admit that our actions that lead us into conflicts of all shapes and sizes are centered in our self-centeredness which expresses itself through selfish actions and words. Conflicts born from these self-centered desires drive us not only from each other, but puts a wedge between us and God in our relationships with Him. It deprives us of intimacy with our Saviour.

James describes how these self-centered desires operate within our hearts and causes us to walk out our lives wrongly.

Here is my translation of James 4:2-3 from the NA28 Greek text, “You desire and you do not have. You kill and you envy and you are not able to obtain. You fight and you war. You do not have because you fail to ask. You ask and you do not receive because you ask wrongly, to spend it on your pleasures.

James used a different word here that I translated as “desire” and the KJV translates as “lusts.” It is ἐπιθυμεῖτε or epithymeite. It is best translated as “covet.” James use of “kill” here refers to things we say and do to harm others from the basis of our jealousy because we “covet” what they have, whether that be possessions, money, position, or status, et cetera. When we cannot obtain what others have that we “covet” we fight and quarrel. This is the pressure that hedonism places on us and all of our relationships. The word “envy” in v2 in which James says, “You envy and cannot obtain, so you fight and quarrel” is the Greek word ζηλοῦτε or zēloute. This word describes a heating up of the “passion” to obtain what others have. This is an escalation in the focus of our minds on the “object” we desire.

James tells us that the reason we do not already have what we have our hearts set on like this is that we have not asked God. Believers should ask God for what they seek rather then fighting each other. Prayerlessness results in failure to receive many of God’s blessings. Also, if we are diligent in our praying through these things then God works a miracle in our hearts, changing what we desire to what He desires for us. He lines up our wills with His. If we pray for what God desires for us then He will give us what we seek. However, if we are praying selfishly then He will not give us what we are seeking only to spend it on our own passions.

Here is my translation of James 4:4-6 from the NA28 Greek text, “Adulteresses, do you not know that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? Therefore, whoever chooses to be a friend of the world is made an enemy of God. Or do you think that  it is in vain the Scripture says, “He yearns jealously over the spirit that he has made to dwell in us“? Be he gives greater grace. Therefore it says, “God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble.”

James is correct. If we are all about getting “stuff” then we are in love with the world and its ways. We have friendship with the world, but this very thing is enmity with God. The word “enmity” here is the Greek word ἔχθρα or echthra. This word describes a hostility that is expressed in opposition and hatred. Therefore, when Christians are in love with and pursue the things and ways of the world then they are expressing hatred and their enmity toward God. They have rejected His ways and are all wrapped up in self-centered desires. This is an expression of hatred my brethren. This is a rejection of self-denial, taking up ones cross, and following Jesus as a way of life. This is a refusal to submit to God and His commands. Why? It is because we love ourselves more than we love God. We are actually expressing hatred of God and His ways when we become consumed with worldliness, which is hedonism.

In v5 we have a difficult verse. Here it is, ‘Or do you suppose it is to no purpose that the Scripture says, “Or do you think that  it is in vain the Scripture says, “”He yearns jealously over the spirit that he has made to dwell in us“?’ The word spirit here is not referring to the Holy Spirit, but to the spirit that each person has. This is that part of us that worships God. However, when we are all wrapped up in lusting with passion after the world and its ways then our spirits are actually worshipping idols. God yearns jealously over our spirits that we would direct our worship and service to Him. If we do not do this then we are guilty of idolatry. Those who are in this idolatry are walking in pride. Who truly worships God by His grace? It is the humble. The humble are those Christians who have denied self, taken up their crosses and are following their Lord. They have rejected hedonism, which is idolatry and self-worship. Those who are living the crucified life are able to do so by His grace. Those who are not humble cannot turn, worship God in spirit and truth because they are proud and are opposed by God.

7 ὑποτάγητε οὖν τῷ θεῷ, ἀντίστητε δὲ τῷ διαβόλῳ, καὶ φεύξεται ἀφ’ ὑμῶν· 8 ἐγγίσατε τῷ θεῷ καὶ ἐγγιεῖ ὑμῖν. καθαρίσατε χεῖρας, ἁμαρτωλοί, καὶ ἁγνίσατε καρδίας, δίψυχοι. 9 ταλαιπωρήσατε καὶ πενθήσατε καὶ κλαύσατε. ὁ γέλως ὑμῶν εἰς πένθος μετατραπήτω καὶ ἡ χαρὰ εἰς κατήφειαν. 10 ταπεινώθητε ἐνώπιον τοῦ κυρίου καὶ ὑψώσει ὑμᾶς. (James 4:7-10 NA28)

7 Be subject therefore to God, but oppose the devil and he will flee from you. 8 Draw near to God and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and sanctify your hearts you double minded. 9 Lament and mourn and weep letting your laughter be changed into mourning and your joy into gloom. 10 Be humbled before the Lord and he will exalt you. (James 4:7-10 translated from the NA28 Greek text)

Submitting ourselves to God is accomplished by the grace of God as we deny ourselves, take up our crosses, and follow Christ. The enemy will taunt us, attack us, and tempt us, however, as we walk in submission to God, we are able to resist him. This is not accomplished by our puny will power. No, we must have God’s grace in order to do this. Through this, our enemy will flee from us. We must draw near unto God and then He will draw near unto us. The only ones who can do this are the humble because He opposes the proud. Therefore, we see that James is telling us that the way to not be worldly and ate up with hedonism is to humble ourselves before God and draw near unto Him. We worship Him in spirit and in truth and reject the ways and stuff of the world. We learn to pray according to His will instead of after the lusts of the flesh, the lusts of the eyes, and the pride of life.

When James tells us to cleanse our hands, purify our hearts, be wretched, morn, and weep, and let our laughter be turned to mourning and our joy to gloom—he is describing what our attitude must be toward sin in our life. We must learn to deny ourselves and walk in repentance. Those who claim to be Christians, but who are consumed by their flesh are not doing this. They are not taking their sin seriously. We must repent of this my brethren. We must humble ourselves before the Lord, and then He will exalt us. If we try to exalt ourselves, God will not exalt us. Remember, coveting can also include wanting to be exalted in the Church.

My brethren, we must learn to deny ourselves that we may break the bonds that our flesh has put us in. I lived for many years as a Christian who was enslaved to his flesh. It was miserable. I did not know that I was supposed to mortify my sins, to deny my flesh, to walk in humility before the Lord instead of pursuing what my flesh wanted. If we do not learn this then there is no way to walk in repentance.

Soli Deo Gloria!

9 thoughts on “Friendship With the World is Enmity With God

  1. The flip side is that we are to be content in and with Christ. As George Mylne summed it up: “Your child has died; or perhaps a shipwreck has bereft you at one stroke, of all your family; or other ills untold, unspeakable, have made you drink the wine of desperation. My friend, these things were ordained by God “before the world began.” In God’s eternal mind it was written–it was settled long ago. How vain to say, “What are You doing?” And when the time was come, God sent His messengers–noiseless, unseen, invisible–to do His righteous will. Could you have said, “What are You doing with my child? What are You doing with the winds and waves? Forbear!”

    “Your will was not consulted–your permission was not asked. Do not say, “What are You doing?” Be silent before the omnipotent Disposer! “I was silent; I would not open my mouth, for You are the one who has done this!” (Psalm 39:9.) “But what can I say? He Himself has done this! I will walk humbly all my years because of this anguish of my soul.” (Isaiah 38:15.) Go softly all your years–yet not “in anguish of soul.” If you have faith in Christ, you are better taught than this. Go softly–yet in faith, in patience. Looking to Jesus, let your language be: “It is the Lord! Let my Lord do what seems good in His eyes!” (1 Samuel 3:18.)”

  2. I am slated to teach on God’s decree and found that quote in my in-box this evening, from Grace Gems. It fits right nicely with the larger topic and puts our petty trials in their right perspective.

  3. The ‘world’ has lost its charms for me…its ways , its ends, the philosophies …
    BUT …the bonds our flesh has put us in…Daily I discover one or other of these: something of self I have not crucified yet..self will, self -gratification….That’s pride all right.
    Pray for me, Mike..to truly humble myself before Him!

  4. Celine, have you read John Bunyan’s Grace Abounding to the Chief of Sinners? He was the godliest of men and as a Puritan one of the gentlest of men even though he spent 12 years in prison for refusing to stop preaching the Gospel. In any case, that book is about his conversion, but, to me, the gem is the last chapter in which he talks about his daily walk “now.” The “now” was after he was released from prison and he was in much demand as a preacher/evangelist and writer of books like Pilgrim’s Progress. His daily struggles with the flesh was no different than ours my sister. However, I am convinced that those whose hearts are pierced with agony and made wretched over these sins are those God is drawing into personal holiness through the fires of sanctification. Let us keep our eyes on the prize.

  5. Mike, Appreciate your work here!

    Manfred, nice piece as well, brother! Edifying to a saint but crushing to a “traditions of men”
    religious person. That kind of teaching today could get you…ummm…tribulated! :)

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