Unity Through Humility

by Mike Ratliff

Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony. And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God. And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him. (Colossians 3:12-17 ESV)

The number one accusation thrown at those who take up the armor of God and use it in the battle as they are called to do, is that they are full of pride. Those who use this fiery dart are equating certainty with pride. Extra Biblical revelation should not be used in the battle by God’s warriors. Instead, the source of truth that is used is the sword of the Spirit itself, the Word of God. Experience is extra-Biblical. Man’s teachings, if contrary to the Word of God, are extra-Biblical. One’s own private interpretation of Scripture and/or experience is extra-Biblical.

These battles may appear to cause disunity in the Body, but unity that is held together through compromise is false. Christians should never seek to be yoked up with those who hold doctrine or beliefs that are contrary to the truth from God’s Word or are based solely on extra Biblical sources. Unity in the Body of Christ is commanded in God’s Word, but that unity is not based in compromise, but love and humility within those who are obedient to the truth.

So if there is any encouragement in Christ, any comfort from love, any participation in the Spirit, any affection and sympathy, complete my joy by being of the same mind, having the same love, being in full accord and of one mind. Do nothing from rivalry or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others. Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus,who, though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, but made himself nothing, taking the form of a servant,being born in the likeness of men. And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross. Therefore God has highly exalted him and bestowed on him the name that is above every name, so that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father. (Philippians 2:1-11 ESV)

The Greek word Paul used here for “encouragement” is παρακλησις or “paraklesis.” This word means, “imploration, hortation, solace, comfort, consolation, exhortation, or intreaty.” It comes from the Greek word that means “to come alongside and help.” It is used by our Lord to describe the ministry of the Holy Spirit in the lives of His sheep. What Paul is saying in the phrase, “So if there is any encouragement in Christ,” is that if it is true that our Lord does counsel, exhort, and encourage us then “complete [his] joy by being of the same mind, having the same love, being in full accord and of one mind.”

Paul is saying that believers must cultivate the mind of Christ and the product of that will be to minister to one another the way He ministers to them. Paul tells them that his joy will be complete if he finds that they are doing this. Paul’s joy was tied to concern for the unity of believers. This unity is not one of compromise with heresies or disobedient brethren. It is one that is cultivated in common obedience to God’s appointed leaders who keeps watch over their souls.

Obey your leaders and submit to them, for they are keeping watch over your souls, as those who will have to give an account. Let them do this with joy and not with groaning, for that would be of no advantage to you. (Hebrews 13:17 ESV)

Those who are unified this way are bonded together because everyone operates together as each other’s servants. Selfish ambition and conceit are attitudes that are used by our enemy in the form of temptations in order that he may sow discord in the Body. As long as we see everyone else in the Body of Christ as as better than us then we have the right mindset. Not only is this concern an attitude, but it is action in us looking after the interests of others. We minister to each other as family.

Unity in the Body of Christ is commanded in the Word of God. We must seek it in all humility and service to one another. However, this is not a command to be unified with those who hold false doctrines and heresies or are under the teaching of heretics and false teachers. We must not be unified with wolves in sheep’s clothing. We must not base our own theology on extra-Biblical sources, no matter how much we respect the one who is leading us into their teachings. In fact, we must seek to correct those who are in these errors, gently yet firmly always with the intent of restoration as they repent.

But understand this, that in the last days there will come times of difficulty. For people will be lovers of self, lovers of money, proud, arrogant, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, heartless, unappeasable, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not loving good, treacherous, reckless, swollen with conceit, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, having the appearance of godliness, but denying its power. Avoid such people. For among them are those who creep into households and capture weak women, burdened with sins and led astray by various passions, always learning and never able to arrive at a knowledge of the truth. Just as Jannes and Jambres opposed Moses, so these men also oppose the truth, men corrupted in mind and disqualified regarding the faith. But they will not get very far, for their folly will be plain to all, as was that of those two men. (2Timothy 3:1-9 ESV)


14 thoughts on “Unity Through Humility

  1. Amen!

    Unity at any cost – what a tragedy!

    It would be like the Bride accepting the Grooms past and present lovers into the bed chamber – (after all, they too possess good qualities and just needed someone to talk to) – thus, instead of a place where God said it was to be undefiled, it has become impure – unholy – not sacred.

    Rather than “sleeping with enemy”, no matter how “good” they appear – they are not of God! They must go! Our God is a jealous God – and is zealous for His honor.

    This is true love – love for the Father, respecting and heeding His words. We must not allow our emotions, or the emotions of others to pollute the purity of His word. It is when you FIRST love HIM that you can rightly love others. And guess what – His way of loving is not our way of loving.

    We are not “unloving” for defending the truth. And please do not get me wrong – – HUMILITY is a must! But also please remember this humility is not reserved for the ‘wolves in sheep’s clothing’ that are ready to devour you – this humility is for the brethren that has gone astray, discouraged, or being mislead – not for the workers of Satan.

    Mike, I appreciate this love and humility you have, for it gives encouragement to the Body and glory to our Father.


  2. Another let’s all unite, Sometimes the enemy starts out nice enough but slowly and slyly gets to his real objection. He was actually trying to cause doubt and division.


  3. Hi Mike. I had some sense of revival reading what you wrote. Christians are not supposed to think highly of themselves, for apart from Him we really can’t do anything. This should remind us (me) to be humble at all times, knowing that God resists the proud. I admit the fact that one great barrier in my desire to win souls and to minister to others through evangelism is pride: the fear of being “rejected”, but really, it’s not about me, or anything that I can do. It’s all about bringing God to them and sensing the urgency of having to share the gift of salvation to others who are still clueless. True, sometimes Christians, for lack of faith and humility would rather go with the flow and desire to be popular by making popular decisions and going with latest trends. Afraid of being different, they (we) are tempted to blend in…

    Also, as God’s children, we are ever too willing to claim all the good things, sunny days, good jobs, nice people, but shy away from loving the unloveable and praising God only when the storm is over. I think the main reason is pride. We’re too proud to accept that God is in control, and when he exercises that control upon us, we complain and think He’s not listening intently. If only believers could live lives worthy of emulation in the aspect of humility! I have so much to say about pride, because I’ve learned a lot from being proud. I sing in church but there were times I know, I wasn’t praising God. I was seeking a glory which did not belong to me. I did not have the heart of a servant. When God showed me through a difficult circumstance in my life that I could never boast about anything, I realized how God moves. And when He did move me to humility, there was nothing to do except to accept His authority or be destroyed by pride… My earnest prayer is for God to make me a servant in every way, and willingly do the job he wants me to do.

    This one blessed me today. Praise God. 😀


  4. Seriously, humility musy be sought, it cannot be captured. Its outward appearance doesn’t always align itself with our earthly perceptions. Moses was the meekest man who ever lived and yet he marched right into Pharoah and said “Let my people go!”. That seemed like boldness but it was also a kind of humility. To explain it is to diminish it.

    Humility is a condition of the heart which reveals it self in many differing ways. And just when you think to yourself you have it, you’ve lost it. Our one authentic example is Christ. All would agree the cross was an exhibition of humility, but how many would say the cleansing of the Temple? And yet read the Lord Jesus was being obedient to His Father and His house. There are many aspects of humility that have to be sought today because the modern church has lost God’s humility and has ceased to look for it.


  5. Rick,

    Yes, I know what you mean. I do know that when I am controlled by the Holy Spirit I have a level of wisdom and discernment and humility that is amazing. However, when I try to do that myself I am not wise or discerning or humble. This why it is imperative to be submitted to the Lordship of Christ at all times, never seeking our own, but only obeying. Make it so Lord!

    In Christ

    Mike Ratliff


  6. Hi Mike,
    My prayer is the same, Help us all Lord to Seek your face and always submit to Your ways, continually help us to obey Your words and not seek our own ways, in Jesus’ name we pray.

    In Christ

    Again, Thank you for the post.


  7. I remember a few years ago I was telling someone how I had finally ‘arrived’ at not being prideful, until it dawned on me I was being prideful about not being prideful!!!! 🙂 Kind of like Ricks comment….lol No wonder the Lord calls us ‘sheep’.


  8. God is pleased with brokeness.

    Great analogy Sherry!!! The bride who accepts the Groom’s past lovers into the same chambers. Spiritual fornication with a “worldly” system. Makes sense.



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