The Mark of a Genuine Christian Disciple

By Mike Ratliff

17 So then do not be foolish, but understand what the will of the Lord is.18 And do not get drunk with wine, for that is dissipation, but be filled with the Spirit,19 speaking to one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody with your heart to the Lord;20 always giving thanks for all things in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ to God, even the Father;21 and be subject to one another in the fear of Christ. (Ephesians 5:17-21 NASB)

Arrogance, boasting, retaliation, and self-protection are just a few of the fruits of Human pride. The natural mind exalts pride while demeaning humility. Timidity is often confused with humility. Timidity is actually a fruit of pride and is a form of fear. It is the method pride uses for self-protection. On the other hand, boldness is often confused with pride. Biblical boldness is actually a fruit of humility. Biblical boldness is the method humility utilizes in our obedience to God. It is an expression of self-denial as our flesh is crucified as we submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.

When we are bold as we obey our Lord we are often accused of being full of pride. Those opposed to our message use this argument as we proclaim the truth and refuse to compromise with those insisting that Christianity must contain multiple versions of “truth.” As Elijah stood in the gap against overwhelming numbers as well as spiritual oppression, we must remain humble and bold. If we become timid then we are operating from a base of fear and will become self-protective and will not obey God nor stand for His truth.

Our Lord was bold. He was never timid, but He was humble all the time. We are called to follow Him. His sheep know His voice and follow Him. In our following Him we are also to walk as He did. Did He give us examples to follow?

1 Now before the Feast of the Passover, Jesus knowing that His hour had come that He would depart out of this world to the Father, having loved His own who were in the world, He loved them to the end.2 During supper, the devil having already put into the heart of Judas Iscariot, the son of Simon, to betray Him,3 Jesus, knowing that the Father had given all things into His hands, and that He had come forth from God and was going back to God,4 *got up from supper, and *laid aside His garments; and taking a towel, He girded Himself.5 Then He *poured water into the basin, and began to wash the disciples’ feet and to wipe them with the towel with which He was girded.(John 13:1-5 NASB)

Jesus knew He was about to be betrayed, tried, tortured, and executed. He knew that in His death He would be the Lamb of God whose sacrifice would take away the sins of the elect. His death would redeem those chosen before the foundation of the world. (Ephesians 1:4) Was fear present in Him? Jesus was fully Man and fully God. I am sure the Man part of Him knew all about fear. (Luke 22:44) However, in the hours before all of this, He poured Himself into His disciples. He cared for, prayed for, and taught them right up to the end. He selflessly protected them as He gave Himself up to those seeking His life. (John 18:4)

However, before that, He ate the Passover with His disciples. At that time in that culture the roads were not paved and the people wore sandals. Their feet would become dirty. It was the job of the lowest servant in a house to wash the feet of guests. Peter and John had prepared the meal in the upper room as Jesus had directed. Jesus and the other disciples arrived later. No one was there to wash their feet. However, during the meal, Jesus arose, put aside His garments, and took a basin and towel to wash everyone’s feet, including those of Judas Iscariot.

Here was the Messiah, God’s beloved Son whose rightful place was on throne in Heaven with the Father, taking on the most humble of tasks in submitting to these men as their humble servant. What is this that He is teaching them and us?

6 So He *came to Simon Peter. He *said to Him, “Lord, do You wash my feet?”7 Jesus answered and said to him, “What I do you do not realize now, but you will understand hereafter.”8 Peter *said to Him, “Never shall You wash my feet!” Jesus answered him, “If I do not wash you, you have no part with Me.”9 Simon Peter *said to Him, “Lord, then wash not only my feet, but also my hands and my head.”10 Jesus *said to him, “He who has bathed needs only to wash his feet, but is completely clean; and you are clean, but not all of you.”11 For He knew the one who was betraying Him; for this reason He said, “Not all of you are clean.” (John 13:6-11 NASB)

Peter reacted here in false humility. He was still operating from a base of pride, but did not realize it. Of course Jesus knew this and the act of submitting to Peter, being his servant by washing his feet, would pierce his heart by driving a wedge of softness into its hardness. His conscience would be pricked and the wall of hardness around his heart would begin to crumble. Jesus told Peter that he would not understand what He had done to him until later. Of course, we know that Peter also proclaimed that he would never abandon Jesus even if it meant death. That was also a proclamation from his pride. Jesus told Peter that he would deny Him three times. Peter did that very thing that night. As He denied Him the third time, the cock crowed and Jesus turned to look right at Peter. (Luke 22:54-62) This drove that softness further into Peter’s hardened heart dealing a deathblow to his pride. However, back at The Last Supper, Jesus has just finished washing the feet of His twelve disciples.

12 So when He had washed their feet, and taken His garments and reclined at the table again, He said to them, “Do you know what I have done to you?13 “You call Me Teacher and Lord; and you are right, for so I am.14 “If I then, the Lord and the Teacher, washed your feet, you also ought to wash one another’s feet.15 “For I gave you an example that you also should do as I did to you.16 “Truly, truly, I say to you, a slave is not greater than his master, nor is one who is sent greater than the one who sent him.17 “If you know these things, you are blessed if you do them. (John 13:12-17 NASB)

I am pretty sure that these 12 men did not have a clue what Jesus had just taught them. They would not “get it” until after His death, burial, and resurrection. We are to be humble believers, not seeking our own in all of our relationships. Instead of being self-promoting and self-protective, we are to deny self, take up our crosses and follow our Lord. That means that we are not to live for self, but are to live for Him in our obedience by submitting to one another. When we serve everyone instead of demanding that we be served, we do to him or her as Jesus did to Peter. God uses us to drive His softness into their hardened hearts, pricking their consciences and beginning killing of their pride and cultivating their humility.

On the other hand, we are also supposed to submit to our enemies. Jesus washed the feet of Judas Iscariot. Jesus knew that Judas was planning to betray Him yet He washed His feet anyway. Could we do the same? How do we treat those who are obviously our enemies or at least enemies of our message? We must tell them the truth, but we must not revert to the tactics of our enemy. Elijah mocked the prophets of Baal as they vainly tried to call fire down from their god to light their sacrificial fire. He knew that at the end of the day God’s judgment would fall on them. He knew they were of Satan’s seed. However, we have no idea whom God may draw to Himself from the ranks of the reprobate. Therefore, we must simply and boldly tell the truth and pray for our enemies.

Can we be gracious to these people and not compromise? I believe we can. I have listened to Dr. James White debate people who are obviously enemies of the truth. He is firm. He never compromises the truth. He is always gracious to them at the end. What happens when we do this? Doesn’t it also drive a wedge of God’s softness into their hearts? My experience is that when I do this I have had some people in dispute with my doctrinal position respond with softness. They don’t often agree with me, but their hostility evaporates.

However, there are others who are our declared enemies. We must be bold and firm with them and never compromise. However, there may be times when God will move us to simply turn from them after telling the truth. They are in God’s hands.

Let us draw near unto God, seek His face, repent of our self-focus, self-protection, and all of the fruit of pride that keeps our hearts hard and God’s light through us dim and fuzzy. After all, Jesus Christ is our all-in-all, but we are nothing at all.

Soli Deo Gloria!

12 thoughts on “The Mark of a Genuine Christian Disciple

  1. My goodness Brother, this is some beautiful teaching, not just teaching but some very powerful preaching.The warfare you have experienced in these past days has drawn you into deep fellowship with God. May He continue to fill you with His Wonderful Peace and Joy. That Peace that Jesus spoke of, not just the kind of peace that we can attain from the things of the world, but a Wondrous Supernatural Peace that surpasses our understanding. I’m truly thankful that God has raised you up and has used you as an implement to quench the thirst of those that are following your blog. Every post I’ve read has blessed me with great encouragement. Keep up His Marvelous Works, it truly glorifies our Blessed Savior.

    Dale G.


  2. Needed teaching!
    Yes Mike…This pierces the pride bubble all right! He is daily teaching me that things I do or say. originate in self-love and pride…like when I point out the faults in another…or make promises I renege from…Or even make silent judgements….Daily He is calling me to learn from Him to take His yoke upon me and learn of Him Who is meek and lowly in heart. ( I am slow, mighty slow, to learn..But He is the most patient Teacher).


  3. I am so convinced that there is but one truth and that one truth is standing with strength and cannot be moved or altered! God is truth! Any who say there are multiple truths in Christianity are NOT standing in the Light! People tend to make such statements that protect their fragile ideas about who and what God is when their understanding is limited. They can’t stand the truth because the truth threatens their preconceived notions about God. If they ARE in the Family of God, they definitely aren’t very mature in the word or are blinded by their notions. Unfortunately, you can’t tell them anything because of the Stronghold and Fortress they have built around their positions. The Strongholds must be torn down before they will here you. Prayer and being firm and assured is all that will help.

    Keep on the Good Work, Mike. I support you before the Throne of Grace!


  4. I was blessed to preach today from Psalm 52 and hit the same basic point – we all expose ourselves as liars and get pulled aside by the culture which impacts how we think and speak. Yet from the Lord we did not learn such things! He will be our refuge and strength – the One who submitted Himself to lawless men. He will have vengeance on those who persecute His body, the church. We must trust in Him and rejoice in knowing He is the faithful one – and we are not!


  5. Thank you , Mike for another insightful piece! The last paragraph says it all for me ” Let us draw near unto God, seek His face, repent of our self-focus, self-protection, etc.” I have had such a hard time with that self-focus and being able to turn to Him for help. Your article on the “Valley of Humiliation” is me also. I wanted to leave a comment, but missed my opportunity. Satan knows just where to put me and keep me. My pride, which I don’t want to admit, keeps me from moving forward.

    God Bless You richly!


  6. You are very welcome April. Be sure to always remember that our Lord is sovereign and you are his and no matter what Satan does, that truth will never change…


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